What is an Ally?

"A person who is a member of the dominant or majority group who works to end oppression in his or her personal and professional life through support of, and as an advocate for, the oppressed population".

How to become an Ally

• Create an atmosphere of acceptance.
• Firmly object to homophobic speech and actions.
• Avoid gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgendered jokes.
• Challenge stereotypes that belittle LGBTQ people.
• Verbally express your support for LGBTQ people.
• Learn about LGBTQ issues.
• Familiarize yourself with resources for LGBTQ people.
• Be willing to educate yourself.
• Be aware of stereotypes you might have about LGBTQ people and challenge those ideas.
• Expect to make some mistakes.
• Don't use heterosexist language, i.e., be inclusive.
• Don't assume everyone is heterosexual.
• Don't assume that all mothers or fathers are heterosexual.
• Don't assume that all men who have sex with men identify as gay or bisexual.
• Don't assume that all women who have sex with women identify as lesbian or bisexual.
• Don't be afraid to ask questions.

Washington, J. and Evans, N.J. (1991). "Becoming an Ally." In N.J. Evans and V.A. Wall, eds., Beyond Tolerance: Gays, Lesbians, and Bisexuals on Campus. Alexandria, VA: American College Personnel Association.